 The only 100% way to tell if a man is gay or not is to either ask him personally or catch him in the act somehow. Other than that, don't think that there are any "signs" There are a lot of men that have been raised by women throughout their entire lives, so its inevitable that they take on some feminine characteristics. BUT! This does not mean that they're gay! We've become so quick to think that feminity automatically equals homosexuality but remember this not always necessarily the case.Stereotypes are simply exaggerations and broad generalizations of looks or behavior of groups. It is said that there is certainly an element of truth behind the ideas that we would consider to be stereotypes.
Can you tell if a man is gay by looking at him? Some people say that you can. There is a certain way that a man stands, sits, walks and dresses that is typically considered ‘gay.’ Commonly, it is the flexed hand, feminine twitch in the walk, and a feminine lean (with the hip sticking out to one side) when they stand.
Can you tell if a man is gay by his interests? Some people think that it’s possible. An interest in hair, make-up, and fashion are often considered as feminine or ‘gay’ characteristics.
Here are the signs that he IS gay:
1) He told me he hasn't been attracted to girls in the past year (since he got sick), eg. "i've had several offers from them but i just wasn't interested"
2) He goes to an all-boys school
3) He always refers to his future partner as "someone" or "they" -- he never says "i want to date a GIRL who..." etc. Also, whenever he refers to a mate's "girlfriend", he is quick to say "(not mine)" in parentheses.
4) He has a pretty good fashion sense
5) He brought up a book involving bisexuality, but when my bf furthered the conversation (online), he said "i'm not getting into this"
6) He hugged my bf three times when we went for a drunken walk and said "i love you" all three times. I questioned that but he said, drunkedly, "well you wouldn't want to say "i hate you" to someone who was hugging you and thus could strangle you!
The most important thing is that you are completely honest with your current boyfriend about everything.
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